Two Paths – I Took the Third

IF it seems I am faced with a decision of
“either / or” presenting me with
TWO paths to choose between . . .
I should pause and consider if
there is a “third path” to lead me
where I want to go –
checking out and examining
my values, my standards, my priorities,
as I walk toward my dreams and my goals
on this journey in the classroom of Life

Two paths there were
and I saw them both
Two paths there were
and I struggled with the choice
Two paths there were
so I took the third

It is when I quiet my heart/mind,
still the hamsters and squirrels
stirring up chaos in my head,
that those deeper Truths rise to the surface

The message of “either / or” is presented
as our only way forward throughout
all of our lives:

• a fork in the road
• left or right
• light or dark
• fat or thin
• black or white
and many more “choices” we are told
have ony two “answers” to choose from

Unfortunately, this concept often stops me
from thinking any further about
the possibility of other options
and I accept the “either / or” limitations
as my focus closes my mind
to the infinite possibilities that might exist
– sometimes this makes it impossible
to make a decision as neither of the
“either / or” paths feels right and
I am stuck feeling blocked
with no way out . . .

SO, how do I avoid this or
how do I escape it
when I find myself there?
What is MY P.A.R.T.

PAUSE the process – still the voices
ACCEPT that there are always more options
than the two “either / or” presents
(ask what lines up with MY values)
RESIST pressure to decide immediately
TRUST my inner spirit –
listen to the still small voice

Simple, not easy!

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MY HOPE – incomprehensible

HOW GREAT IS OUR GOD . . .
the higher power, Life itself—
NOT red, white and blue
NOT orange or gold plated

SILENT INVISIBLE . . .
yet seen and heard
flowing through ALL of Creation

PRESENT IN ALL
those who see and hear
and those who
cannot see or hear
IN
buildings and
chapels and
sanctuaries
not made with human hands –

Each
heart that cries out,
Each
soul languishing in darkness,
Each
flower trampled underfoot
is held
by
the Unseen Presence of Love
awaiting awakening
of
the depths of Life within
planted by the Creator,
the essence
of
Being
drawing ALL back
to incomprehensible
Oneness
of I AM . . .
incomprehensible . . .
I AM . . .
MY HOPE

Simple, NOT Easy

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CHOOSE – Simple, not easy!

in this time, I see chaos
in this time, I see fear
in this time, I see hate
I will NOT repeat the
words that support
chaos or fear or hate!

Words have power
and TRUTH is not spread
by repeating UNtruths,
even if my motive is
to prove them UNtrue!

Every time I repeat
an UNtruth,
I give UNtruth power . . .
I refuse to play that game!

I will speak what I believe
TO BE TRUTH and
TRUTH will bring
PEACE, TRUST, and LOVE
as it displaces UNtruth!

TRUTH versus UNtruth –
I CHOOSE which to SPEAK,
which to SHARE,
which to HOLD in my heart . . .
TRUTH or UNtruth?

I CHOOSE . . . TRUTH
I CHOOSE . . .
simple, not easy!
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“Your body adapts
to what you eat.
Your mind adapts
to what you consume.
Your soul adapts
to what you love.
What you feed yourself today
is who you become tomorrow.”
-James Clear
(https://jamesclear.com/quotes/your-body-adapts-to-what-you-eat)

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Thoughts of Today – TOT 09/16/2026

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No matter how long I live,
I have come to the conclusion
that I am a “child” at the
beginning of a journey
that I had no idea I was on . . .
maybe I have reached the “tot” stage!

Born by no conscious choice
of my own
into circumstances and a time
not of
my own conscious choice
with relationships
not of
my own conscious choice
presented with challenges
not of
my own conscious choice
SO THAT
I feel I am always a “child” needing
to learn and discover ways
beyond my current level
of understanding . . .

Today, I decided that what I
need to do is to break my “life”
into smaller pieces – just Today,
examine what I am thinking
only for that small window in
measureable time – ask and answer
“what are my thoughts of today?”

Maybe, at the end of this day,
I can review and explore the
“thoughts of tonight”!
Did my “focus” stay the same or
what “rabbit trails” distracted me
and where did they lead as
I prepare for rest tonight?

Simple, NOT easy . . .

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Evidence of a Light Source

I saw the leaves shining
and I knew somewhere a “light source”
was the cause of that shining –
those “shiny leaves”
confirmed that there was
a source of light somewhere near
even though I could NOT see it right then!

Maybe it is the same in my world . . .
if I open my eyes to see the “shining”
of good things done by some people
I could share those “shiny leaves”
with people surrounded by darkness . . .
talk about the evidence that there
is a source of Light near
even if I cannot see it right now!

Could I help draw others to see
that source of Light,
encourage others to HOPE in
the power of Love
instead of the
love of power,
including myself?

simple, not easy –
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“The world as we have created it
is a process of our thinking.
It cannot be changed
without changing our thinking.”
—Albert Einstein

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Me, God, a dot in the Universe

back BEFORE the “basic” questions
I have asked, I have come to realize
that there is a question I need to ask
and answer before those “basic”
thoughts –
the foundation of what I need to know:
does GOD see me and hear me?

The universe that man knows exists
is SO vast, so beyond all imagination . . .
and there is SO much more that we
do not know exists—
does the Creator of all this immense,
overwhelming, mysterious
evidence of an inexplicable life force
flowing through more than science
can explain, more than mankind
can understand—
DOES this Creator,
CAN this Creator have interest in this
one miniscule container of the common
life force put in place throughout a
universe so vast outside time and space . . .

To equate the Creator with a parent,
I can grasp how I can love the child I
“produced” no matter how many millions
of other children are in the world,
BUT what if I had billions of children
crying out for my attention . . . it is
beyond my ability to comprehend and,
SO, I ask the questions
and I wait in uncomfortable silence
for the answer I need deep within . . .

GOD, do you see me?
GOD, do you hear me?
GOD . . . dare I ask it . . .
do you love ME?

and my heart “hears”
a gentle whisper,
“yes, my child, I see you,
I hear you, I love you . . .”
and, for a moment, I feel the
Life flowing through my heart
and I know . . .

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USA – America a Critical Phase August 2026

critical—adj.:
1. of or forming a crisis or turning point; decisive;
2. tending to find fault; censorious;
3. dangerous or risky; causing anxiety;
4. of critics or criticism;
5. of the crisis of a disease

Everywhere you turn, you hear it being said,
in one way or another, that we are in dangerous times
and many people are very anxious.
So much is being said against “America,”
against government, against government officials,
and about the “moral decline of America,”
about the lack of moral fiber in elected officials,
about the absence of consistent standards
among church leaders that
many people are living in fear.

The sad thing about all these “things being said” is that
they are general statements which allow the individual
making the comment to avoid personal responsibility
for the condition being spoken about and, in lamenting
and crying aloud, to encourage others to
avoid that responsibility as well while they focus on
what “others” are doing that is so wrong.

While it is always true that we can see flaws in systems
and other people,
those flaws exist because of choices made by individuals.
Individuals who chose to walk a certain path,
individuals who were drawn to certain actions by their priorities,
individuals who compromised ever so slightly,
individuals who have impacted a nation over a period of time—
but, many of those who have had a strong impact
are not well-known nor were they politicians or religious leaders—
they were individuals who made a choice on the road of life
that led them to be less than God would have had them to be and
to cause others around them to be less than
God would have had them be—
mothers and fathers who produced the individuals and
the attitudes living in America today.

The great deceit is that it is not you and I,
but the “government,” or “elected officials,” or
“a fallen church leader” who has corrupted the environment.
Convincing us that it is “others” keeps us from looking
too closely at ourselves,
from examining too closely our individual lives and choices.
It succeeds in transferring responsibility
(therefore, the need to make change)
from my shoulders to some “others” over whom I have no control
and that makes me NOT responsible.
It is “their fault” and I must fight against them and
their agenda in order to restore “perfection.”

However, there is an important consideration we are overlooking:
God deals with individuals and
requires accountability from individuals!

Check it out: God’s prophets in the Old Testament
came proclaiming the need for individuals to repent
so that the nation could be saved from the sure consequences
that would come (2 Chronicles 7:13-15, one example of many).
God has always held individuals responsible
for the state of the nation and indicated judgement of a nation
would come based on the behavior of the people (individuals).

Jesus came to earth during a time of hard oppression
for the Jewish people. Rome was not an easy taskmaster and there were
many zealots who worked for the destruction of that government.
Yet, Jesus did not spend His time criticizing Rome
nor did He encourage others to be disobedient to the laws of the land.
Not once can I find that Jesus recommended that
the people rise up and “fix the government”
that was blatantly oppressive and evil.
He did, however, criticize the Pharisees
(the religious leaders of the day)
for their lack of spiritual depth and that, I believe,
is what Jesus would criticize us for today.

What we need to “fix” is us—
and this can only happen
when we allow God to conform us
to the image of His Son, Christ Jesus (Romans 8:29).
It can only happen when our focus becomes Jesus
and our energies are directed toward knowing God
and His word:
“do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed
by the renewing of your mind that you may prove
what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect”
(Romans 12:2).
I believe this occurs when we follow the admonition in Hebrews 12:2—
”fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith.”
Focus on Jesus, who during His life on earth instructed people
to focus on God and His kingdom, not the kingdoms of this world.
Jesus taught people to seek the kingdom of God
NOT fix the kingdoms of this world!

So our battle is not with “others” or the “government,”
it is with ourselves. It is me, it is you!
Our fingers should not point any further than our own
standards, behavior and choices.

Examine, if you dare, your own “entertainment”:
does it cause you to be a better person,
does it lead you to think of God or His ways,
does it help mold you into the image of Christ Jesus,
would you be comfortable if Jesus were sitting next to you?
If not, why are you participating in it?
Have you been deceived into believing that there are
areas of your life in which God is not interested?
Have you been blinded by the god of this world?
(Check out the parable of the sower for some valuable insights.)

Reality check:
If you thought you would not get caught—
would you cheat = steal] on your income tax?
(justification is easy . . . the government has
plenty of money and I work hard for what I earn
and anyway they don’t use it the way it should be used);
would you take merchandise home from a store
without paying for it?
(you know, the scanner fails to accurately scan an item
and you just don’t mention it;
rationalization follows . . . after all, I’ve bought plenty
in there and they make a profit on the other stuff;
this is just my discount);
of course, if an “overcharge” occurs, it must be corrected
and we are quick to point it out (talk about a double standard)!

What choices have you made that show you to be a “Christian”
—a follower of Christ?
Is the standard you require of others at work in your life?
Check out Romans 2:21-24,
“you who preach against stealing, do you steal?
You who say that people should not commit adultery,do you commit adultery?
You who abhor idols, do you rob temples?
You who brag about the law, do you dishonor God by breaking the law?
As it is written:
‘God’s name is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you.’”

It is my belief that the greatest enemy
of reform and lasting change is
the same enemy that was identified in
the account of the first fall of man from perfection—
satan, the father of lies, the great deceiver.
It is he who assists us in our headlong plunge into destruction.
It is he who offers us thoughts to help justify
what we do and condemn what “others” do—
he is the “accuser of the brethren” and
he is constantly looking for recruits!
“Who are you to judge someone else’s servant?
To his own master he stands or falls.” (Romans 14:4)

Paul said it very clearly in Philippians 2:14,
“Do everything without complaining or arguing”.
That doesn’t leave room for most of what is being said today.
Another clear admonition by Paul is in Ephesians 4:29,
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths,
but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs,
that it may benefit those who listen.”
It doesn’t seem to me that we are doing very much
“building up” with our conversation that
repeats political rhetoric instead of personal opinions,
used insults and demeaning words against any who disagree, etc.

What kind of an influence are the “Christians” of America
exerting that would cause others to “put on the mind of Christ”?
Where are the energies of Christians directed?
Are we “seeking first the kingdom of God and His righteousness”
so that God’s purposes will be served or
are we determined to walk according to our own will and
what we have decided is best?
Are we shining a light in the darkness,
are we allowing God’s love to flow through us?

So, America may indeed be in a “critical phase,”
dangerous or risky;
but, if that is true,
it is because you and I are in a “critical phase,”
tending to find fault with “others’ constantly
while not examining ourselves.
We have assumed the position of “accusers”
when we should be assuming the position of
falling on our faces before God and
humbly asking for His wisdom to guide our lives,
not deciding our “agenda” is God’s – that is arrogant!.

Time spent in God’s word and
in His presence will result in changed hearts
in individuals and that is what will result in
a changed America!

“It is time for judgment
to begin with
the family of God . . .”
I Peter 4:17

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Focus ToDay – July 19, 2026 Tree of Life

the Tree of Life . . . how do I find it?

Light leads to the tree of Life,
the source of Living Water –
but how can I find this tree
I have been told to seek?
this one has light leading to it –
but then there is darkness
seeming to surround it . . .
how can I find the “right tree” ?
will I always just be a seeker,
destined to always thirst, but
never drink of the Living Water . . .
“Faith, have faith,” I have been told –
but if what I believe is what will guide
me to the tree, the Living Water,
why do I not see a path,
a way to walk toward that tree . . .
an inner source? what does that mean
and how could that be?
“from the inner being Living Water
will flow abundantly”
I breathe deeply . . . I believe
in the process: Divine Completeness
from the One Source, the Spirit . . .

simple, not easy . . .

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HISTORY SPEAKS: FEAR (McCarthyism)

Since I have lived 80 years on this earth,
I have experienced and witnessed
an amazing amount of “history” and
its impacts.

Therefore, I am offering information on
some related history to what I am seeing today –
using FEAR of communism
to control a population and
to distract from what some are doing

This is not the first time it has been used
for political purposes –
— to get an agenda approved by people
— to silence those who disagree
— to retaliate against perceived enemies
and many other “shady” goals that usually
involve gaining power and wealth

In order to anticipate any cries of bias,
I am including the AI OVERVIEW
for your review.

— Mc·Car·thy·ism(noun)
a vociferous campaign against
alleged communists in the US government
and other institutions carried out under
Senator Joseph McCarthy in the period
1950–54.

Many of the accused were blacklisted
or lost their jobs,
although most did not in fact
belong to the Communist Party.

AI OVERVIEW
McCarthyism is the political practice
of making baseless, indiscriminate accusations
of disloyalty, subversion, or treason, often
using unfair investigative methods
to suppress opposition.
It takes its name from U.S. Senator Joseph
McCarthy.

THE HISTORICAL ERA:
(The Second Red Scare)
The term originated in the late 1940s and
1950s during the “Red Scare,”
a period of intense paranoia
in the U.S. regarding alleged
Communist infiltration of American society
and the government.

THE TACTICS:
Senator McCarthy utilized highly publicized
congressional hearings to accuse various
government officials, artists, and academics
of being Communists or Soviet spies, often
waving “lists” of names without providing
concrete evidence.

THE IMPACT:
This climate of fear led to widespread
political repression, loss of employment, and
the blacklisting of hundreds of professionals—
most notably in the Hollywood entertainment industry.

People were often presumed guilty
by association.

THE FALL:
McCarthy’s campaign ultimately unraveled
in 1954 during televised U.S. Army hearings,
where the public witnessed his bullying tactics
and lack of evidence.

The Senate formally censured him later that
year.

MODERN USAGE TODAY
McCarthyism” is used more broadly as a
byname for the defamation of character,
reputation, or patriotism through
unsubstantiated charges.
It is frequently invoked to describe
any situation where those in power
use fear tactics, intense investigations,
and disregard for civil liberties to
silence unfavorable political or social views.

TO LEARN MORE about the mechanics
and timeline of this era, you can review
the detailed resources provided by
Encyclopedia Britannica or explore the
historical records at the Eisenhower
Presidential Library.

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some resources:
• From Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/McCarthyism

• McCarthyism / The “Red Scare”Eisenhower Presidential Library
https://www.eisenhowerlibrary.gov/research/online-documents/mccarthyism-red-scare

• McCarthyism – Marquette University https://academic.mu.edu/meissnerd/mccarthyism.htm

• McCarthyism | Definition, History, & Facts – Britannica
https://www.britannica.com/event/McCarthyism
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PERSONAL MEMORIES
I remember hearing about some who were forced
to give the names of friends to avoid prosecution
and there were some rumored suicides and
deaths caused by these “hearings” – the terror
of being called before this man with the threat
of prison or worse punishment led to lives of
thousands that were totally destroyed by
FEAR of a non-existent threat spread
throughout our country – FEAR of being
accused, FEAR of being a friend with someone
who was accused (just like World War Two
Germany) living with FEAR that served some
warped agenda until people finally got enough
and said “STOP!” – I wonder when we will say
“enough!” and stop being manipulated by FEAR
in a threat intended to DISTRACT us from what is
being done by those seeking power and wealth?

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GENOCIDE – Just a Word

IF I shouted “DUCK” in a crowd in some public place,
it is unlikely anyone would think I was telling them
about a bird at the lake in a park.
In fact, I imagine it would create panic
in our current society with its tendency to
use violence to “settle” disagreements
or perceived grievances.

It is SO important for us to understand the words
we are using IF OUR GOAL IS to
continue building our world instead of destroying it!

Instead of exchanging insults and hate,
we need to share thoughts and opinions and
always define the words we are using
so we can communicate the message
we intend to communicate.
We ALL can benefit by growing
our knowledge of each other.

Genocide is a word that is NOT clearly defined
or understood because
we are further away from
the horrendous world war that caused it
to be created –
sadly, even to the point that some deny
it ever happened and some call it a hoax
to further their own agenda.

However, there are many written accounts by
survivors of that genocide and pictures taken
at the time by those who ended the conflict and
discovered the emaciated survivors and
confirmed the death camps directed at
certain groups of people existed – it happened!

SO what do I mean by “genocide”?

Genocide is the intentional and systematic destruction,
in whole or in part, of a national, ethnic, racial, or religious
group. The term was coined in 1944 by Polish-Jewish lawyer
Raphael Lemkin, and established as an international crime
by the 1948 UN Convention on the Prevention and
Punishment of the Crime of Genocide.

DEFINING Acts of Genocide
Under international law, genocide is characterized by
specific actions committed with the intent to destroy the
targeted group. These include:

• Killing: Murdering members of the group.

• Causing Harm: Inflicting serious bodily or
mental harm to members of the group.

• Inflicting Conditions: Deliberately imposing conditions
of life (e.g., starvation, forced displacement) designed
to bring about the group’s physical destruction.

• Preventing Births: Imposing measures intended to
prevent births within the group.

• Transferring Children: Forcibly transferring children
of the group to another group.

NOTE:
Lemkin lobbied for genocide to be outlawed by international
treaty, but the Genocide Convention restricted his initially
broad definition to five specific acts “committed with intent
to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnical, racial,
or religious group, as such.” Its definition remains contested
by scholars and institutions across international law, history,
sociology, and related fields.

It is unfortunate that major countries have consistently
refused to support or enforce the international crime
rulings because they fear they will be held accountable
for the times of genocide in their countries – that includes
the United States of America.
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It breaks my heart on a daily basis to see TODAY the
targeted groups of people being abused – one does not
have to look far to see GENOCIDE being “justified” by
those standing to gain wealth and power by getting rid
of those they claim are “bad” as we watch young children
and women and old people beaten or forced from their
homes to be sent to a place where they will be under
constant threat of death or worse . . .
AND,
just like in the time of Bonhoeffer and the Confessing
Church,
clergy who stand against the genocide and try to protect
the marginalized and voiceless are beaten, pepper sprayed, and arrested!

May our eyes be opened and our hearts be
softened to the cries of all who suffer
as we resist the message that
we must destroy any not like us to
protect our _________ (*fill in the blank)
* each “agenda” has a difterent word used
to stir up fear

Sages of every age have disputed the message
of hate, selfishness, and arrogance being “sold” today
and
we must reject its alluring temptation to
gain power by belonging to the “right” group,
if our world is to survive!

Words matter –
they can
build or tear down,
bring healing or destruction,
shine light or deepen darkness,
expand understanding or close hearts/minds –

Genocide is NOT Just a Word
to those victims of its lies –
we need to know what it means!
to every man, woman, and child
in a world pursuing power and wealth.

HOPE lies in the re-lighting of the
spark of Truth within,
in the hearts/minds of all humanity,
to speak the Wisdom of the ages . . .

TREAT OTHERS THE WAY I WANT TO BE TREATED
simple, not easy!

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